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Top five ways to be a great groomsmen/woman

Being a great groomsman/woman is more than just wearing a nice suit and showing up to the wedding. It's about supporting the groom and making sure his big day goes as smoothly as possible.

Here are five ways to be a great groomsmen:

Groom with groomsmen

  1. Be available and responsive: The groom may need your help with tasks leading up to the wedding, so make sure you are available to help out when needed. Respond to messages and calls promptly, and be willing to lend a hand with anything from setting up decorations to running errands.

  2. Show up on time: Being punctual is important on the big day. Make sure you are at the ceremony and reception venues on time, so you can help out with any last-minute details and get ready with the rest of the wedding party.

  3. Be supportive: Weddings can be stressful, so be a supportive friend to the groom. Listen to his concerns, offer words of encouragement, and help keep him calm and relaxed throughout the day.

  4. Be respectful: Remember that this day is not about you, but about the bride and groom. Be respectful of their wishes and follow any instructions given by the wedding planner or other members of the bridal party.

  5. Have fun: While there are responsibilities that come with being a groomsman, it's also important to have fun and enjoy the festivities. Dance, mingle with guests, and help create a joyful atmosphere that the bride and groom will remember for years to come.

bride in gown on staircase
I had to add a picture of Thomas's beautiful wife Alexis


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